Series: Behind the Smile

The Drowning Masked Belonger

All the Masked Belongers experience the same potential physical, mental, emotional, and spiritual challenges: “I hide behind my smile. It is an emotional struggle to get through the day. I am fully supported in all areas of my life.”

EXAMPLES OF WHAT THEY MAY BE EXPERIENCING

Stress manifesting as physical tension
Occasional fatigue despite external support
Inability to relax fully even with help
Digestive issues related to emotional strain
Decreased motivation for physical activity

Difficulty accepting support even when it’s available
Mental blocks around sharing vulnerability
Negative self-talk despite external encouragement
Anxiety about not living up to others’ support
Fear of becoming dependent on others

Guilt for struggling emotionally when fully supported
Inner conflict between smiling and true feelings
Shame in asking for emotional help
Feeling misunderstood despite external support
Fear of showing weakness

Disconnect from gratitude despite full support
Struggling to find inner peace while supported externally
Questioning spiritual growth when everything seems to be “perfect”
Doubting self-worth in the face of abundant support
Difficulty reconciling inner emotional battles with external ease

There is an additional consideration for Drowning Masked Belonger: Their business isn't getting off the ground despite their continued best efforts.

Even with full support, their business remains grounded, causing frustration. The emotional toll of feeling unsuccessful can lead to guilt about not being able to contribute financially in a way that meets their dependents' needs, creating internal conflict about their role as a provider.

Empathy prompt

As you step into their shoes:

What emotions are arising for you?
Were you aware that a solo entrepreneur alongside you is experiencing these emotions?
Are there circumstances in which you have felt or do feel the same?
If you had a heartfelt message, what would it be?
If you could have an ongoing conversation, what topic would you choose?
In which ways could your strengths enhance their wellness?
Given your unique life experiences, are there potentially opportunities for you to partner or collaborate for the greatest good of all?