27 Archetypes

Series: Behind the Smile

The Drowning Optimistic Loner

All the Optimistic Loners experience the same potential physical, mental, emotional, and spiritual challenges: “My smile reflects my inner joy. I’m not at all supported at home. The good, bad, and ugly is all on me.“

EXAMPLES OF WHAT THEY MAY BE EXPERIENCING

  • Physical tiredness from managing life alone
  • Muscle tension from stress, despite inner joy
  • Weakened immune system due to long-term stress
  • Difficulty maintaining consistent physical health routines
  • Sleep issues related to stress
  • Mental fatigue from carrying all responsibilities alone
  • Overwhelm from juggling tasks despite inner joy
  • Difficulty finding mental peace in chaotic environments
  • Confusion about handling emotional challenges independently
  • Mental exhaustion from not receiving support
  • Emotional isolation despite inner joy
  • Guilt for feeling joy while unsupported
  • Emotional burden of handling everything independently
  • Fear of emotional burnout
  • Resentment for being unsupported
  • Struggling to maintain spiritual alignment in an unsupported environment
  • Questioning spiritual purpose in a chaotic home
  • Doubting spiritual guidance during emotional isolation
  • Difficulty staying spiritually grounded despite joy
  • Feeling spiritually challenged by lack of support
There is an additional consideration for Drowning Optimistic Loner: Their business isn't getting off the ground despite their continued best efforts.
Their smile hides the frustration of trying to launch a business without support. The financial instability can create significant anxiety, especially if they have dependents relying on them. The fear of not being able to provide for their loved ones' needs can lead to stress and feelings of guilt about failing to fulfill their role as a provider.

Empathy prompt

As you step into their shoes:

  1. What emotions are arising for you?
  2. Were you aware that a solo entrepreneur alongside you is experiencing these emotions?
  3. Are there circumstances in which you have felt or do feel the same?
  4. If you had a heartfelt message, what would it be? 
  5. If you could have an ongoing conversation, what topic would you choose?
  6. In which ways could your strengths enhance their wellness?
  7. Given your unique life experiences, are there potentially opportunities for you to partner or collaborate for the greatest good of all?